Why the fuck are midwestern women so stuck up?

I am originally from Arizona, i lived in Cali too for a while. When i moved up here(Wisconsin) i noticed that it was super "clickie". Meaning you cant just walk up to a random group of people and start partying with em or hanging out or whatever. You had to have grown up with that group or know someone in that group or something to that effect. I also noticed that the women up here weren't as attractive and don't take care of themselves(i.e-fat, outta shape) Not to mention there is like 25 times more good looking women out west that are way more approachable and nice. Women here are rude as fuck. When i say hi about 90% of the time i get no response, when i do its a dirty look or a half ass hi back. What the fuck??? I'm a nice guy, i dont try to fuck every girl i meet, in fact i haven't had a GF since i moved to this fuckin state(goin on 5 years) Is it true that women are more attracted to guys that treat them like shit??? Because thats what it seems like here. If thats the case im screwed. Or maybe they are so sheltered here there not used to my style, i grew up in a city with like 900,000 people now i live in a town of about 30,000. We're close to Milwaukee here you would think that would help people be a bit more open minded and diverse, but it seems the opposite. I just don't know what to do any more i would like to meet an awesome girl that liked me for me and not what i own and who i know. ANY advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated.


yo i'll even post a pic of me... maybe im just ugly or something... who the fuck knows.

Yo on a side note... in no way did i mean to offend anyone who is over weight. Just simply saying its not my cup of tea.

I live in Madison and I've definitely never noticed that. I've always found Midwestern people are super friendly, but maybe I haven't been where you have. where are you living?

its true dog, when you leave the best coast people are much more uptight/stuck up... i have definitely noticed that in my travels.

but you just gotta bring that chill west coast attitude to them man. keep rollin, do what you do, and shit will work out. just cuz people are on the whole a bit more stuck up or whatever, it dont mean there aren't chill people. you'll find some eventually man

I grew up in New Berlin, go to school in La Crosse. I doubt there is any truth to the females in Wisconsin being any less friendly than anywhere else in the country. I think you're just looking in the wrong places.

as a large women i am saying your loss and how do you expect not to offend people with small minded comments such as yours?
peace stoner...

California = beautiful weather most of the year, very "visual" culture, most women have had SOMETHING done to them by the time they're 21 (boobs, noses, you name it) Most people who care about how they look have plenty of places to work out, without going to a gym. Rollerblading/Biking/Running are big rec sports in Cali because most of that you can do all year round and just about anywhere you want. Eating is considered "optional" with all the liquid diets there are.


Midwest = COLD AS FUCK! Snow on the ground 8 months out of the year (ok maybe 6) We eat to stay warm and survive our winters, working out is a chore, first you gotta shovel your car out, then you gotta wait 20 minutes for it to warm up, finally you're ready to go, you're not in the mood to work out anymore because your motivation went out the window the minute you saw the 15 inches that fell last night. MOST Midwesterners, if they don't know you, are startled when you're happy and cheerful, did I mention its like 40 below for 4 months out of the year? What the hell do we have to be cheerful about? Its not that the girls don't care how they look, its just that they need the extra meat to stay warm. Liquid diets are considered "idiotic" because being on a liquid diet could possibly mean death in the winter....liquid freezes. By the way 90% of the women in midwest are all natural, not because they can't afford the boob jobs, nose jobs, etc etc....but because they'd rather spend money on keeping their cars warm as possible in the winter.



Hope this helps.

AMEN....


fat and fabulous.....

I have only met a few being from so-cal.
My brother was dating a girl from Wisconsin and she was a b**ch.
She was so mean and self Involved. Alot of me me me
Maybe there Is something In the water??
I dont like to generalize mean people are everywhere. Have a good one

Generally if you're gonna go for the "looks" in the Midwest....the ones that "look" like california girls....are the ME ME ME ME ME ones.



Now if you were looking for a gal who, would cook for you, clean your house, love you when you need it, and do anything to make you happy....chances are she's not gonna look like a Cali girl.



But this is the Midwest I'm talking about, the girls here who want to "look" Hollywood are the ones who's heads are up their butts.



Maybe Sour should try one of those "out of shape" girls he mentioned and talk to her and just maybe he'll get some positive feedback.



Also remember, Midwesterners are not as open minded as Coasters.

As somebody who was raised on the West Coast and has done a fair amount of traveling, I would like to kindly inform you that you are wrong.

I don't like to stereotype, and there is a lot of gross over-generalizing being done in this thread (eg, psycrow sayin that in "most" girls have plastic surgery by age 21 and that "eating is optional" in cali - true of some but not most), but there are still some legit points being made. So again, I don't like generalizing, but im pretty positive that you would have much better luck walking up to random groups of girls and trying to strike up a conversation in cali than in wisconsin.

Peace

Look, I don't know what you guys are talking about. Midwesterners are some of the most friendly people I've ever met, and I've been to California, New York, Colorado, all over the country. Just because there are some people in Wisconsin who are less attractive doesn't mean they aren't great people. And by the way, there are a lot of very attractive girls in Wisconsin. Maybe if you live in Black Earth, or some other town of farmers with 300 people you have less luck, but drive 20 minutes. Madison, Milwaukee, Green Bay, Fond du Lac, La Crosse, those are all towns big enough to meet people. And trust me, I've lived here my whole life, there are plenty of people for you.

I find it really insulting that you would make these generalizations. Just because your particular town doesn't have the nicest people doesn't mean that's true of the whole of Wisconsin, or the Midwest.

Yo i've talked to bigger girls, they're nice, i smoke with some. Sorry if i offended you. yo i understand it gets below zero here, all creatures adapt to their enviroment... I'm just not physically attracted. I can't get it up lookin at a girl thats bigger than me, shit just ain't fuckin happenin. Maybe if i took some viagra or somethin. But how can you have a relationship where theres no physical attraction? or a relationship where your sex life depends on a pill....fuck I'm not that old ye

Re: Why the fuck are Wisconsin women so stuck up?

That says it all dog.




Its not just West Bend dog its Wisconsin, like 3/4 of the state.
Milwaukee is the only cool city in the state. The rest are too small townish. Even madtown and ive partied there plenty of times.
Minnesota is chill tho(literally) LOL, yo but for real its
got a more laid back vibe. And they got more attractive women there. I drive from here to North Dakota to pheasant hunt every year and MN is the hottie pocket between WI and ND. And got a few buddies in St. Paul. Ok so i should have named the thread :
"Why the fuck are Wisconsin women so stuck up?"









And i pick the Vikings over the Packers.

Re: Why the fuck are Wisconsin women so stuck up?

You live in West Bend? Alright, well I've met several very attractive women from West Bend, so I don't know what you're talking about. And they're also very nice people. I don't know what you're talking about a more laid back vibe. Maybe in a town like West Bend where a lot of the people have crops that they're stressing about, but it's not the whole state. I don't think living here my whole life takes away my credibility. It means I know what the people are like. And I've been plenty of other places. People in Wisconsin seem a lot more approachable.

Re: Why the fuck are Wisconsin women so stuck up?

I never said the whole state i said 3/4 and thats a guesstimate.
You lived here your whole life your version of attractive differs from mine greatly i guarantee it. Go live in AZ for a few years then come talkin.

Re: Why the fuck are Wisconsin women so stuck up?

Just because the girls in Wisconsin aren't covered in plastic surgery, fake tans and thousand dollar blouses doesn't mean they're any less attractive. And it isn't just how sexually appealing they are. People in Wisconsin are probably a lot more down to earth and real, rather than the fake plastic faces you get in California.