filing a complaint to stoner guys:

hi, i'm a girl who smokes.
yes, there are girls who smoke. (i've seen some on this forum! they exist! 0.0!!)
i've met plenty of guys who smoke.
but they all are more of the types that aim for fuck buddies.
or they have girlfriends.
not cool.
i'm tired of being used or assumptions being made. i'm an awesomely cool chick, i love to make new friends, i'm uniquely quirky, but i'm tired of just making friends with guys who then get a non-stoner chick who isn't quite as adventurous or active. what's up with that??? and what's up with all the guys who just want to be friends, think a chick is hot enough for sex, but don't want to try for more? also not cool. especially when they are stoners. what ever happened to stoner guy + stoner girl = <3 ??

so why do so many guys get turned off by stoner chicks? and why do all of you stoner guys either have a chick or only want sex-sex-sex and not an awesomely chill relationship? i still haven't answered that one. all of my friends say "uhh because we're...guys" lameeee

a little about me, without giving out too many details:
i am studying physics and i love science
turning 20, smoking since i started college. only kush ^^
i've traveled to some really freakin off-the-chart places (pretty close to one of the poles, for example) and usually couch surf. or am doing research.
i love mountain biking, running, camping... and on occasion i go kayaking or play frisbee. i love green in multiple ways.
i really enjoy philosophical discussions.
i smoke pretty much daily. it helps my slight asthma, which is finally going away.
i challenge rules that are unfair or just plain dumb
i have a dog and a rat.
i really enjoy electronic music. dubstep ftw.
i am going to burning man this year XD although i have to skip a week of classes
i bike e-v-e-r-y-w-h-e-r-e
Alma lives in Montgomery, Alabama. Mary lives in Jackson, Mississippi. and this Ganja Girl lives in --->>_____
i like going out, but cuddling up for a movie is just as awesome. or smoking a j in a park - watching the leaves fall and wondering about the randomness of the falling of the leaves, the patterns in the leaves...and whether trees could possibly develop a form of communication...

i like to be outside doing things. i call myself a pirate. and i don't like pastels. bright colors are my thing. i'm way too open-minded for my own sake sometimes.
and i really like chocolate. and the smell of green. especially if you combine the two. oh, man.... the memories

hi i read your post and i liked it. seems like you put alot of thought into it. but there's really not a complicated answer...all it comes down to is guys these days don't want a real relationship. and usually for some dumb reason but its just the way it is. i wish there was a deeper reason for this but there's really not.


hope this helps and answers your question

-Tazz

i want a real relationship ...i jus dont want my chick bent all the time gotta keep that clear head in some situations you no n if she can handle hers then its all good...oh an im bouta b 20 myself

Dude im stoner and i want a stoner chick but they are allways taken. You just got to keep your morals high and you will find what you are looking for. And your job sounds really cool good luck to you oh and what strain are u puffin i saw u like kush just had mango kush last week smokin sour desiel tonight

you sound really cool, intelligent, well spoken
and
a complete package

stick to your guns
never undervalue yourself

one day a man will come
and say
"you are my queen"

Its not about sex sex sex sex with me... I love going out and doing things... believe me....

I love that you have your crap together. It's great that you know who you are and what you want- bravo!

Honestly, though, and this from personal experience and now sage wisdom: guys are wired to want to get in your pants. They're trying to get into the straight girls pants, too. And the boring girls', and the not drop dead beautiful girls'. Not all guys, mind you- the others are gay. (LOL- it's a joke guys!)

You are young and have so much going on for you. Why wouldn't someone want to hook up with you? You are open minded, cool as hell, intelligent, versatile.

As you get older this will happen a little less frequently, as in all the time- just not double time! It's just annoying.

A guy's biological duty is the try and mate with everything he can. A girl's biological duty is to be selective and mate with the strongest and brightest to further the human race.

Guys want girls, girls choose guys!

I could have sworn I was going to open this thread and it was going to say "TAKE A FUCKING SHOWER" hahaha but seriously. I am an Engineering student so I know all about physics... don't bring that up ever. Guys don't want to be with a girl they feel is superior to them and when you talk over them about your school or work they probably feel very inferior. Being in a physics department has to have similarities to the Engineering department so I would say open your eyes around there and try to pick out the stoners around you, then you will have more than just weed in common. I know A LOT of engineering students like to smoke.. A LOT. If not just go with the flow, and don't have sex with random guys if it happens once or twice within the same group you will get that label and thats all they will want you for. Seriously there are probably more stoners around you in that physics department than you realize.

that reminds me, i gotta take a shower

The responses to this girls thread make me very happy.
I live in UK and I have plently of stoner friends.
But I totally get what she says about stoner guys, the ones I've been into have always ended up going out with a non smoker. uptight non smokers that dont want them to smoke! sure their hot girls but the bitchy controlling non smoker attitude just makes them look ugly. I just don't get it!

Well I cant find a good stoner chick.

Hey im nothing like that i dont speak to a woman cause i want sex...i talk to everyone really............i have a couple friends that just want sex and they are in so called relationships but the fucked thing i notice is that they only wanted to be in a relationship was because they wanted to have sex with them instead of knowing who the person really is like checc this out MA one friend of mine became so blind that he let his gf kicc me out of his place and i was like your only letting her kicc me out cause shes fucking you if she never was then she wouldnt be here at your house and then my friends can get so possisive just cause you got a lil booty......but basicly what iam saying is that people who get together for the sex is the start off to a bad relationship and i've learned from my friends mistakes just by seeing how messed up theyre relationshops are and i was on the merge of being just like them but i came to my sences and well im staying silebit till i get married cause i want to have a healthy relationship with whom ima be with the rest of my life and i want a stoner chicc cause ima stoner guy....i've had all types of relationships and sex always ruined it cause either she would get possive to where i couldnt even get off the phone with my ex's just to check the mail or go for a walk for some alone time and when i would do that my ex's would be like who you fucking huh and i would be like i went out for a walk jeeez...but yup ima good stoner guy and if you live in cali socal lets toke it up son lol

It's not about if the girl is a stoner or not, to me. I'm an all day everyday smoker but my chick doesn't smoke at all. Now, I'd LOVE if she smoked, that would make things a lot smoother, but even without it, I still love her and we get along perfectly fine.
She doesn't try to get me to quit. So I don't force weed on her.
But yeah, don't think I wouldn't prefer a stoner chick who's into astronomy and Shoegaze. Who's into just living.

I blame it all on the media. Starting at such a young age and it seems to get younger and younger we're all so desensitized by the media screwing everything up. Kids just don't stand a chance nowadays. By the time they reach young adulthood they're typically already too far gone. The next generation, even a lot of the upcoming young adults nowadays don't like things like camping, kayaking or hiking anymore. (This guy loves all three however) Why would they go outside nowadays when theres xbox live and a lap top with infinite options at your fingertips. From social networking, to research, to youtube, slowly but surely it's all going down hill. Something has to happen and it needs to start from the parents. Teach them right from the start.

its not really about if they smoke or not its about who makes u happy but to me if ur a stoner ud probably be alot happier with another stoner it is true tho all guys want is sex doesnt mean u cant have a relationship i mean my girlfriends a stoner we do fuck alot but we also chill n blaze alot to its not like theres not a balance u just gotta find out wats right for u eventually ull find the right stoner guy all u gotta do is open ur eyes and look usually wat u want is right there infront of u but u cant see it

Maybe its just all the nice stoner guys and girls are just that little bit too high to chat each other up

The person I smoke with the most? An Italian chick with a ridiculous body. I have yet to have a sexual thought about the girl, but we still chill and smoke at least a couple times a week and I look forward to it every time.

It's probably more the guys you've experienced so far, and as someone above me said, there are plenty of good ones out there, you just haven't found them yet.

But, if you're in the NJ or SoFla area anytime, lemme know. Love meeting new people and reversing the awful karma that some members of my gender create!

im a straight up stoner ive embraced what i am and live it everyday with no regrets even tho i smoke every day all day even when i go to work and sometimes at work lol but any ways i cant date a non smoker girl any more cuz my life style just doesnt work out with a non smoker chick id choose a decednt looking stoner girl over a hot non smoker any day even tho i dont judge girls by there looks but by there attitude and morals even tho i may be a stoner for life i still have my goals in life im in school about to finish plan on opening a stoner concept resturant called munchies and just have a good time with good people and hopefully a good stoner girl that i can share it with fo sho peace love and respect is what i live by and will always live by .....

YES, i know this is an old thread but if my words fall on deaf ears then so be it.
believe it or not there are some guys out there (yes even in their 20's) that want nothing more than to have a chill ass chick that smokes, is breathtakingly beautiful in their own way and who love to be active to wake up next to every morning. Unfortunately alot of THESE guys are very... reserved, so they wont always approach you. Its the quiet guys that speak the loudest from the heart (wow just pulled that one outta my arse)
I hope you have found, or soon find what you are looking for.

ps nice name drop, i <3 couchsurfing