ok so this is a little bit awkward but i guess ill say it anyways... so ive been hooking up with this girl for a little while now. it came to the point when we wanted to have sex but there was only one problem....its been a few times now and ive only been able to last about a couple minutes...which has never happened to me before. i had a girlfriend in high school for ~3 years and we had A LOT of (great) sex and i was never faced with this happening to me before. i have a couple of hypotheses about what it could be... since i got to college ive been smoking every day. i have heard that smoking pot can make you more sensitive and therefore THIS would happen. also i pretty much went from no contact with females all year to sex pretty quickly so i was thinking that could be it too since i dont really pleasure myself that often either. if anyone has any answers/suggestions it would be much appreciated ive tried to do some research but it hasnt really helped... ill be going home for summer soon so i wont be smoking nearly as much so im hoping that will help
The weed doesnt really affect me like that, not getting laid in a while definately does that though. You could try masturbating before seeing her, it helps. Love how this forum is open enough to talk about things like this.
A good time to practice giveing the lady some oral pleasure, or TanTric encounters, or adult toy play!! Not all sex stops when a man orgasms...or should not, IMHO!! Well before I met my wife, she was in a long term relationship with a lady. Her fisrt husband was a hard drinking man, once he was finished, so was she!! This lead to her lady friend, HOWEVER, she found out that women can be just as weird as men, cheating, degrading her, and just the whole not trusting issue. She was really hurt when it all fell apart for her. When we met, we were both single and NOT LOOKING for a relationship. That was 13 years ago now, we've built a wonderful life, and our sexual side is very interesting for us!!
relax and go down on her first - if you get her off first then whatever you do is just icing on the cake so to speak if i were you - i would not masterbate first - you are young and theoretically you should be able to orgasm more than once - aint nothing wrong with going all night 10 minutes at a time
you just gotta smash on it even if it kills you to not pull out when you about to jizz thats what condoms are for yo and its like having a safety net for yo lil soldiers and the more you get use to it the longer it'll take for you to jizz and then once you surpass her point of climax you'll be like the iron chef of pounding vagina-hence the term GOING ALL NIGHT LONG HAHAHA TRY IT,IT WORKS I SHOULD KNOW IMA MAN WHORE
Ok, so am I the only one that thought that the new girl may have a better cooch than the old girl? Idk, I don't know them and couldn't even in that way, just saying. Um, they make duration condoms. Has a numbing agent for your penis. Might help. Other than that, masturbation makes perfect. Trust me, around my house, Dj Diddles flaunts her stuff on a regular basis. There's no shame in it. Have fun and relax!
I would troll but I'm high. Nah, I kid, I have found this forum open enough to post about a sensitive issue myself, so top marks to sf and all its users. Give yourselves a pat on the back guys, it's on me.