Ahhh, just had a discussion w/the spouse last night similar to this. He insisted that the past is very important because who we are now is a result of what we've gone through up until this point. I disagreed and said it is not important because we can't change it, so why get hung up on it? He rolled his eyes.
I said something like, "OK then, right now go back to the past and change whatever you didn't like." He couldn't. I said, "Now go into the future and make it what you want it to be." He couldn't. I told him, "Live this moment, right now." He could.
He rolled his eyes again and sighed.

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