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Old 03-18-2007, 07:26 PM   #1
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Single - Socialy unacceptable

I am single and has been for numerous of years.....
Love only found me once when i was about 16(head over heels) but I never wanted to be in a relationship unless I was really in love....I see many friends(Both male and female) that are with their respective partners with the knowledge that they might not stick together forever which I really donøt understand

I enjoy my freedom and i function better as a single but this whole sociaty actually works around the fact that you have to get married some day.....

Its almost impossible(Here in denmark atleast) to get a loan to buy a house when your alone and there are numerous benefits for married people, insurance wise.....Another issue is that I expirience that people at times think less of you if you state that single life might be the way to go for you for your entire life..

How do you guys and girls feel on this issue?
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Old 03-19-2007, 09:20 PM   #2
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maybe not the thing bout being lonley the rest of ur life an living a shity stoner life smoking dope every day it puts ur head in to hyperspace ffs.know wata mean it fucks ya up an every body needs some 1 there to talk to wen there stoned especially a woman who loves the fella.too bad i dont hava girl friend as from last sunday ffs. i caught my girlfriend cheating on me in a bar after 3 years off going out with her an wen i walked out off the bar and got home i foned her an she told me over the fone that she doesnt wanna ever speak to me again an i havnt spoke till her since the bitch so im just getting over her now an just taking things easy taking the bongs every day to help take away the pain that shes put me through.................but 1 thing i can say that she was the bestest girl friend i had ever had an even though she done that on me ill always love her deep down in my heart.but its time to move on get into the rythem of being single once an for allif any girls might be intrested in me dont hesatate to fone me my mbile numbers 07716399562 soo i hope to hear from ya or yasss lottsa love from ur big man steven o yea loada grass hope its some C,orange,bud
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Old 03-19-2007, 11:38 PM   #3
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maybe not the thing bout being lonley the rest of ur life an living a shity stoner life smoking dope every day it puts ur head in to hyperspace ffs.know wata mean it fucks ya up an every body needs some 1 there to talk to wen there stoned especially a woman who loves the fella.too bad i dont hava girl friend as from last sunday ffs. i caught my girlfriend cheating on me in a bar after 3 years off going out with her an wen i walked out off the bar and got home i foned her an she told me over the fone that she doesnt wanna ever speak to me again an i havnt spoke till her since the bitch so im just getting over her now an just taking things easy taking the bongs every day to help take away the pain that shes put me through.................but 1 thing i can say that she was the bestest girl friend i had ever had an even though she done that on me ill always love her deep down in my heart.but its time to move on get into the rythem of being single once an for allif any girls might be intrested in me dont hesatate to fone me my mbile numbers 07716399562 soo i hope to hear from ya or yasss lottsa love from ur big man steven o yea loada grass hope its some C,orange,bud

To bad dude....I feel for ya...

I am not a everyday smoker and I don't have time to be lonely...My training takes up so much of my time and all my boys down there are all the friends..

My suggestion is not to go out and seek a new girlfriend right away...Take your time....You gotta become in peace wtih your self before another commitment
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Old 03-19-2007, 11:53 PM   #4
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Well its a brave soul that sticks their mobile number (hope its really the ex-girlfriends )on a forum I'll say that for you...luckily I have no credit or I'd phone up and breath heavy or somthing...just to cheer your up ...think admire has gave you sound advice...and the ole mobile number could put the girlies off...may be seen as a bit desperado
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Hey fellow single person here. And yeah society and people really do look down on you some if you are past a certain age and still not married, or at least with someone. I am 27, have a full time job, and already own my own home. Some people assume I'm married and are surprised when I tell them I'm not. Then they say things like "Oh you'll get married someday!" Oh hello? Like I should be pitied for not being tied down? Ha. My biggest problem though is with all the children-happy folks. If one more person tells me "Oh you'll change your mind when you meet the right man" when I tell them I don't want kids - I think I'll explode. Why does everyone think that as a woman I should already be married with one kid and one on the way? I mean, last I checked it was 2007 not 1940.

On the flip side of that I do get lonely at times. And I'm totally not ruling out ever getting married (but def no kids! ha ha). I'm just in no rush, been in enough bad relationships to last me for quite a while. Hopefully the next time around will the the last as well. For now I totally enjoy hanging out with whomever I want, whenver I want. And never underestimate the usefulness of that Special FWB for when times get rough

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Old 03-22-2007, 01:14 AM   #6
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Hey fellow single person here. And yeah society and people really do look down on you some if you are past a certain age and still not married, or at least with someone. I am 27, have a full time job, and already own my own home. Some people assume I'm married and are surprised when I tell them I'm not. Then they say things like "Oh you'll get married someday!" Oh hello? Like I should be pitied for not being tied down? Ha. My biggest problem though is with all the children-happy folks. If one more person tells me "Oh you'll change your mind when you meet the right man" when I tell them I don't want kids - I think I'll explode. Why does everyone think that as a woman I should already be married with one kid and one on the way? I mean, last I checked it was 2007 not 1940.

On the flip side of that I do get lonely at times. And I'm totally not ruling out ever getting married (but def no kids! ha ha). I'm just in no rush, been in enough bad relationships to last me for quite a while. Hopefully the next time around will the the last as well. For now I totally enjoy hanging out with whomever I want, whenver I want. And never underestimate the usefulness of that Special FWB for when times get rough

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Yeah....And I could imagine that the problem for women is even bigger.....A female who doesn't want kids? Now thats a problem for at lot for people..

Reminds me that the Danish minister of family affairs just proclaimed that she wanted all couples to have more that three children(Now its 1,2 i think..Maybe a bit more)

People got pretty pissed

I like childen...always has and i am going to become a great uncle when my two sisters get children(They both want to....But they are still only 15 and 19 so there are some years to go) but i know that I don't have the patient to be around children all the time......
My buddy once told me that when you have children you have to put aside your own needs all the time and I am not willing to do that...

At least my mother agrees with me so I don't have family bitching at me all the time:P
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My buddy once told me that when you have children you have to put aside your own needs all the time and I am not willing to do that...

At least my mother agrees with me so I don't have family bitching at me all the time:P
Yeah I realize I'm too selfish - my fur kids are the closest I want to get! And lucky about your family. My mom is the MAIN ONE that tells me I'll change my mind. Ugh. I keep trying to explain to her that she ain't getting any grandkids out of me lol
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im not saying u will be the same but both my sisters insisted they was not havin kids
my older sis has 2 and my younger sis has one
u just never know what life will throw at u
only one thing u can say 100% will happen n unfortunately thts death

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I understand that life can have crazy twists like that. But what I hate is the people that INSIST and try to put their wants and beliefs on me.
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yea i can understand that
i dont like it much when ppl do it either

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i, too fell in love and lost it. im so happy the way i am at the moment (single) and think ill be like this for a while. the thought of single-dom is not a negative one at all for me . i will not consentrate on the opposite sex until im comfortable to do so.

remember "nobody needs another person in there life but its nice to have someone along for the ride"
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Old 03-22-2007, 12:05 PM   #12
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Hehe...Smokey might be right....I heard numerous of times that suddenly women get their homones and then suddenly they need children:P

Raqalicious - But i think that we are better people for actually realizing that we are too selfish instead of just getting the children and finding out later...
I know SOOOO many people who should never have children but did any way
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Old 03-24-2007, 02:04 AM   #13
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Dam! u people talk alot chics email me at calikindbud@safe-mail.net
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Old 03-26-2007, 03:18 AM   #14
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I can totally relate to this thread.

First let me say that I’m 32 and not 22 and yes it does make a difference.

I’m someone that actually enjoys being single. I have friends that HAVE to have someone around. I’m not knocking them but I can’t relate to that at all. And as far as having someone there that what my friends are for. I don’t hate men..I love men. I’ve had people think that I’m a lesbian because they rarely see me with a boyfriend…ha ha. I do have boyfriends from time to time but I can go a couple of years without one and not blink an eye.

I have a daughter so I’m not worried about never having children.

You know what I think. I think that you can’t look to other people to make you a whole person. You have to do that yourself. Follow your passions and TOTALLY be yourself and eventually you’ll find someone that really appreciates that and loves you for it.

I’ve been married and divorced I can tell you that being so so alone is WAY better than being miserable together.

And as far as sex goes. That’s what they made dildos for. If dildos don’t do it for you give me 45 minutes to get ready and well hit the town.

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Old 03-26-2007, 03:22 AM   #15
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Here here! I agree with everything you said I'm at the point now where I enjoy being single. I have my fun when I want it and I just enjoy life with my friends. My bestfriend is one of those always wants a boyfriend types and I just don't get it either. I wish more women would embrace their independence.
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