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Yes...It was the summer of "86 I was 18 and just rented a place down by the beach. I had met this girl (Kimberly 20) at a local watering hole, she had expressed she was in need of a place to stay until she moved in to her new place next month..So me being the gentleman I was I offered up my place to stay until she found a place...little did I know she was Bisexual and was in a relationship with another girl (Cyndi 19) after about a week of her staying at my place we begun a sexual relationship, and a toroid one at that! (I can't believe I'm telling this story) One night Kim's girlfriend was over drinking wine and smoking weed and one thing lead to another and we took turns on each other!
Well this lasted for the rest of the month, with Cyndi moving in with us! We lived together that whole summer, down by the beach. It was a very loving and respectful relationship we all had, we all still dated others and never placed any restrictions on each other, I learned a lot about how to treat beautiful women that summer and it gave me a lot of confidence.
Eventually Kim moved in with her boyfriend and Cindi kinda just drifted away.
Kim and I stayed in touch for a few years after that (I went to her wedding and hooked up with one of her bridesmaids (Lisa 22) (reminds me of the movie Wedding crashers lol) We (Lisa and I ) dated for about a year and the rest is HaZzMatT history...I did have a few other threesomes many years later but nothing as wonderful as what I had with Kim & Cyndi...
I don't think (IMHO) it would not work in a committed relationship or in a marriage, due to trust issues.
~Hazz
Ive had a few 3somes. Usually the girls are so drunk it isnt much worth remembering. BUT, I DO remember this one time... And I hope to make it happen like that again real soon!
not yet, but hopefully soon... it almost happened once with my boyfriend and my best friend, but my friend passed out right before we got really into it, we were all a little wasted
ive had a few legit 3 somes, usually just at parties and shit like that. most memorable one, i was 14 and in 8th grade, when i had a 3 some with 2 fine freshmen in the back of a van on the way to the mountains. what makes this worth noting is that i had just started goin out with my first real girlfriend not even 3 weeks before that, and these were 2 of her friends. she ended up finding out and i got dumped over it, but i got over it... best part of this whole thing was when i told her that it really wasnt cheating because it was 2 different girls at the same time, so they cancelled each other out haha
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best part of this whole thing was when i told her that it really wasnt cheating because it was 2 different girls at the same time, so they cancelled each other out haha
Boy you got a lot to learn about respecting women.
All this "bitches" and "it wasn't cheating".....not really funny or cool.
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Boy you got a lot to learn about respecting women.
All this "bitches" and "it wasn't cheating".....not really funny or cool.
haha... boy you got a lot to learn about chillin the fuck out and understanding people who come from different backgrounds than you.
this is an internet forum, with people from all sorts of backgrounds and upbringings. there are different cultural norms in different places, and therefore when i use a word it may not necessarily mean the exact same thing as it would when you use it.
where you from? im gonna take a shot in the dark here and assume some well-off, relatively crime free suburb, a place where referring to a female as "bitch" is considered extremely disrespectful, correct? well im not from where youre from... i was born and raised in gardena, california (south central LA, about 5 minutes NW of compton), and because of the environment in which i was raised, i most likely have an entirely different vocabulary and set of values than you do.
where i come from, the word "bitch" (depending on how its used) is usually nothing more than a synonym for "woman." even today, living in colorado, when certain girls call me up ill occasionally answer the phone with somethin like "whatup bitch," and they're not offended because they know me and they know that i dont mean it in a disrespectful way. what makes a word like that disrespectful isnt the word itself - its the intentions behind it, the way it was used. the vast majority of the time, when i say "bitch," im just using it as a synonym for "girl," i dont mean any disrespect... so you can stop this shit about how i need to lean how to respect women haha...
as far as the "it wasnt cheating" thing... i know i shouldnt have cheated in the first place, that was a mistake. but after all was done, i was getting dumped either way...so i decided, for the sake of entertainment, to tell her about the 3-some rule from Road Trip. big fucking deal, it was a lil comment i made 5 years ago, just trying to lighten up a shitty conversation. you seriously need some lightening up man
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"Gotta Survive" (aka "Smokin' That Dank") by Tupac Shakur, Young Lay, Ray Luv, Mac Mall & Mac Dre
OVERATED, if you have sex with the right person you don't need an extra person.
Man, thats like saying two blunts isnt better that one. Sure one is great. But you can't tell me if you could, you wouldnt like to enjoy another at the same time.. lol
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haha... boy you got a lot to learn about chillin the fuck out and understanding people who come from different backgrounds than you.
this is an internet forum, with people from all sorts of backgrounds and upbringings. there are different cultural norms in different places, and therefore when i use a word it may not necessarily mean the exact same thing as it would when you use it.
where you from? im gonna take a shot in the dark here and assume some well-off, relatively crime free suburb, a place where referring to a female as "bitch" is considered extremely disrespectful, correct? well im not from where youre from... i was born and raised in gardena, california (south central LA, about 5 minutes NW of compton), and because of the environment in which i was raised, i most likely have an entirely different vocabulary and set of values than you do.
where i come from, the word "bitch" (depending on how its used) is usually nothing more than a synonym for "woman." even today, living in colorado, when certain girls call me up ill occasionally answer the phone with somethin like "whatup bitch," and they're not offended because they know me and they know that i dont mean it in a disrespectful way. what makes a word like that disrespectful isnt the word itself - its the intentions behind it, the way it was used. the vast majority of the time, when i say "bitch," im just using it as a synonym for "girl," i dont mean any disrespect... so you can stop this shit about how i need to lean how to respect women haha...
as far as the "it wasnt cheating" thing... i know i shouldnt have cheated in the first place, that was a mistake. but after all was done, i was getting dumped either way...so i decided, for the sake of entertainment, to tell her about the 3-some rule from Road Trip. big fucking deal, it was a lil comment i made 5 years ago, just trying to lighten up a shitty conversation. you seriously need some lightening up man
Oh don't give me that bullshit man. BITCH is BITCH no matter what, the term BITCH means female dog, so no matter what context you're saying it in, no matter WHO you're saying it to, you're basically calling that person a female dog. I don't give a rats ass if you from da hood.
Let me ask you something, and be totally honest.
White boy in your neighborhood calls a black man the N word, what's gonna happen? Chances are he's gonna get some type of beating or worse, shot and killed (yes over a stupid word) so white boy knows not to call the black person the N word no matter what context its in....RIGHT?
Its the same shit, you don't call a woman a bitch....period. Man I hate that these 18 and 19 year olds don't comprehend that words can hurt. I grew up in a small town, NOT a suburb....I constantly was called names and picked on due to two things, Deafness and ADHD, words hurt man, even if they're in a context that would be "friendly" I've been called a retard because I wore a device called a phonic ear which is basically an 80s version of the I Pod, except, it wasn't COOL. I've been called all kinds of names and while I shrug it off, it still hurts.
Now think about his, girls and women these days are very much having a hard time growing up and being confident in themselves and for the most part have a fragile self esteem, why? Because apparently everyone's idea of a perfect woman is either some Victoria's Secret supermodel (after 10 lbs of makeup and a couple of eating disorders) or its those "perfect" girls that you see in all the movies, the Jessica Albas, the Lindsay Lohans (when she's not drunk or stoned out of her mind) the Ashlee Simpsons....the list goes on, girls and women of all ages are striving to be like those women so they can be "accepted" So while it may seem like this girl and that girl doesn't mind being called a bitch, the reality is, it hurts them, they don't or wont tell you that it bothers them because they want to be accepted. Girls are even calling themselves bitches now because they think they'll be accepted and viewed as "cool" because they're "bitches" I bet you more often than not, these girls will either a) end up having physical and psychological disorders most of their lives (eating disorders, inferiority complex, drug addictions...etc etc) or B) Kill themselves because they're basically already "killing" themselves to be accepted. Every time a guy (or gal) calls a woman a bitch, it hurts them. So instead of telling me to chill out, ask any woman on this site if they actually LIKE being called a bitch....the majority will tell you NO.
The word bitch is disrespectful to women, no matter what context you put it in, I hate to see a man call a woman a bitch no matter if its joking or not, no matter if its "friendly" or not, I myself refuse to call a woman a bitch, even if she's cruel and mean to me. Like I said, you got a lot of learning about respecting women.
As for the line from a movie, that's another thing that is wrong with this world today, people think that if someone in a movie says something, its ok to do or say the things they do. Hollywood now more than ever, is putting out movies that are demoralizing the values of our country, movies like road trip, "how to be a player" "players club" and countless other movies that glorify using women as objects are teaching our younger generation that its ok to view a woman as a sex object. I bet when a nice looking woman walks by, the first thing that pops in your head is "DAMN I'd tap that" weather or not you want to admit it, it seems that way from the posts I've read.
Yeah I probably just killed a lot of people's buzz by typing this out, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to get a smart ass comment back, but I said my piece and I really hope you realize soon, that you'll go a long way, when you respect other people, and that starts with how you talk to someone.
I'm willing to bet that when you go in for an interview for a job you don't go in and say "Whats up bitch, I'm down with this shit." Right? You're a little more polite and respectable....why can't you apply that kind of attitude to your life....you're 19, in 10 years (and thats how old I am now) you're going to look back and go "I can't believe I talked like that".....unless of course...you refuse to change.
And if I had some weed, I would chill, but I don't, my back pains are flaring up, I can't sleep at night, I'm sore from the neck down, and I'm tired of people, especially young people, thinking that certain slang is ok.
Take it from me, that kind of stuff doesn't fly well around here, so if you can show some respect, I'll show you some.
I apologize for the long post and my attitude but I just want you to understand that it doesn't matter where you come from, on stonerforums, you respect us, we'll respect you, that begins with how you talk to people and what type of "slang" you use.
peace
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Man, thats like saying two blunts isnt better that one. Sure one is great. But you can't tell me if you could, you wouldnt like to enjoy another at the same time.. lol
well I guess I should say it is not for me personally, but I am open minded enough to accept that others DO this practice. How can you possibly love someone and share their body intimately with another anyway? I guess it just don't appeal to me personally though. I tend to be in love with who I fuck.
But live and let live is my motto. TOO damn many moral police out there anyway with the Christian RIGHT! HYPOCRITS is more like it IMHO! as they are the ones who fuck around the MOST! Please don't the Christians get all hotsey-totsy about it. America is freedom of beliefs.
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