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So what in god's name is up with this one?

I've known my current boyfriend for about 6 years.
We dated way back in the day (I was 14) for a while but eventually ended things as I was young and he was going away for college and yadda yadda yadda. Anyway, many years later (actually, February of this year) we started dating again.

But thru-out the years, he was basically my rebound guy (Yanno, the one you run to for sex and comforting). We never really *fucked* but would fool around for hours and hours (along with getting shitfaced as hell). Before we started dating I turned to him for -eh hem- comforting, and he stayed at my place for a week. Something musta clicked to him and he realized he fell for me.

Long story short, we've been dating since Feb.

And our sex life has changed dramatically.

Going from basically getting my bones jumped everytime I saw him to basically a non-existent sex life. While we do actually *fuck* now, when we do it's short-lived. I'm not sayin' the dude ain't good at what he does, he just don't do it.

What the fuck happened? My assumptions is he's the guy who loves the chase and not the catch, but then why stay with me? I don't get it.

(Small add on: I got him hooked on opiates, which is known to decrease the sex drive and all that fun shit)


Also, I've literally done everything I can, from throwing myself at him (laying ass naked on the bed, spread eagle) to speaking to him about directly ("Babe, do you not enjoy our sex? Can I change anything?" ect, ect)

What can I do at this point? I'm an *extremely* sexual person and at this point I'm getting depressed and feeling rejected in more ways than one. HELP

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Well if he's hooked on opiates, thats your problem there!! I'v been addicted to heroin for nearly nine years since i was 16, and iv had sex with all of 3 girls in that time!! You could be the prettiest girl on earth and do anything with or for him and it wouldnt matter, it totally kills your sex drive. Now i havnt used for nearly 4 months and i'm gagging for sex. I'm not too sure what you can do because no matter how much you try it probably wont interest him!!!
P.S. How or why did you get him hooked on opiates?? Havivg been what iv been through i wouldnt wish an opium/heroin addiction on my worst enemy!!

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I'll PM you the story as if I remember correctly we're probably not supposed to talk about it.


ty for your advice, honey

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