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Well me and my g/f of 2 years just broke up and it sucks!! I am just wondering how most of you got/gotten over a breakup! I mean you just feel lonley and stuff and i hate it. Now it seems like i have to start over again. I mean there is a chance we might get back together but i donno yet. The thing i have been doing the most is going out and getting fucked up to get over it..Yesterday i ened up getting fucked up with my ex ..and that made it harder.
So how do you guys/girls cope with a breakup

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ugh! that happened to me with a girl i dated for years...i was ready to marry her too

first i let myself feel shitty, and read depressing books, but kept myself functional in my job and social relationships...after three months of moping around, i took some graduate courses, and tried to keep myself occupied by reading optimistic books, and studying to better myself...it really helped my self esteem and mood to do some work on me

i don't have any advice to help you in the short term except don't disgrace yourself by hanging around outside her home all night or writing her 10 page letters explaining yourself...give her space and maybe she will change her mind like my girlfriend did

well this just happened to me a few days ago
best advice i can give is just give yourself some time to calm down and then really you just have to get back up on that horse so to speak.


go out and try to meet some people. maybe you'll find someone you like?
if not mary jane is always there.. sorry to blab on but im baked

good luck

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Yea im not writing her letters or nothing we broke up on thursday..and then she spend the night friday saterday.. And that just made it harder..im not getting myself down but she was my smoking partner/drinking partner blah blah blah. Ill giver her space and stuff n hope for best...oh n the funny thing is im the one who broke up with her in my sleep lol..
My friends say this is why u allways have other girls ur close to and stuff ya know.. But when ur about to live together and then breakup its hard...
lifting weights is how im trying to get over it and classes
OH AND WEED IS MY SAVIOR LOL

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I honestly dont know if there is a good method. The only way its going to hurt less is with each day you begin to feel more comfortable with the new situation. Try not to have to much stuff around you that reminds you of her so you can kind of get her out of your head for a while.

There is no real way of dealing with these types of things cause we are all different and we all deal with things in diff ways. Just take one day at a time and my advice is not to spend too much time with her as this will only make things harder on you, for sure keep your friendship with her but give yourself space to work shit out in your own head...good luck ..xxxx

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im getting over a breakup as well. we dated for about 2 years

without pot i would have gotten seriously suicidal...

it keeps me sane and happy

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hit that shit!!

anti-depressents and weed, or a new gf

none of which i have right now, i'm kinda screwed

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lol i have been doing fine i guess now! I have got fucked up with her a couple times and stuff...i mean we are thinking about getting back together but we donno

She called me in da morning the other day. I picked up the phone and no one said anything. i just sat there and then i heard"dont stop it.......dont touch my underwear then a guy said why not baby" i flipped out...AFter about an hour of not asnwering my phone i picked up and she said that it was her brother and he gave her a wedgie
BUllshit!!!

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man, that's too much drama for me. cut that shit out. i mean, i may be a little biased bc the 2 and a half year relationship i got out of back in may was somewhat abusive but i KNOWWW that drama like that never adds up to good. just gotta find another chill stoner like i did ^___^ once you find someone that smokes with you, you start arguing and you're like "fuck it, let's light up". that's what my man and i do. to see where i was 6 months ago playing the 'fighting/should we break up' game to see where i am now is like night and day. sometimes you just gotta worry about you and if this chick is making you miserable, fuck her. coming from a chick, btw.

Dude first off, in no way am I meaning to sound like a jackass, keep this in mind.

If you broke up with her in your sleep and she cant understand the fact you were asleep then you're better off without.

You will never get over her if she is staying with you. Why is she staying with you and you are broken up? Thats like not helping at all. Tell her if she wants to stay broken up to please give you your space. I guarantee you if she loves you she will say thats not what she wants and will take you back.

If she doesnt, then like i said you are better off.

Me and my fiance of 5 years broke up a few months ago and it was the worst pain I have ever felt. We working things out though but it wasn't for a dumbass reason. If your girl is still staying the night and shit she's either A not considering you two broken up, or B playing a really fucked up mind game on you. Tell her you want space and she'll come crawling back. Works everytime

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some great advice there.
the old saying "time is a great healer" rings true with this one i think. that and keeping yourself busy. i'm single for the first time in 12 years and really enjoying the "no hassle" do-what-i-want side of it. i stayed friends with my ex but it was just opening old wounds and not giving me a chance to get over her so i ended all contact.
life is way too short for hassle and fighting in my opinion.

Break Ups of any kind are difficult. I find when dealing with a romantic break up I try to stay clear of the back and forth fighting that usually takes place. I have heard more than once that "sticks and stones" rhyme about words. Here's the thing about that rhyme, I feel it was written to make sombody feel better because words can be very hurtful. Especially if there was genuine affection in the relationship. It is very hard to remeber the good and easy to call upon the hate when I am feeling hurt. I also want to say i do consider the source of those words though. If it is somewone I had an authentic relationship such as a lover or bf, gf, spouse then the words will have weight. If it is just some loser with nothing better to do then rant the weight is not the same. I try to trust my instincts, usually the are VERY accurate. Good Luck ! The bottom line is nobody can tell you how to grieve a loss. They can only tell you what worked for them. Take what rings true for you and mold your own healing practise!

I still cant get over my break up. The saddest part was that we hung out only for about a week.

One night I was just too stoned and I was reloading the bowl but I was so stoned I dropped her and she shattered into pieces. Damn it. Nice way to throw 40 bucks away. But in that week it lived it always lulled me to sleep.